Renting with Pets: An Interview with the Founder of Unmentionable Pets

Kim Concepcion is the Founder of Unmentionable Pets, a service that helps landlords and prospective tenants to resolve pet-related issues.

What does Unmentionable Pets do, and what is the meaning of your name?

 Unmentionable Pets shares information, resources, and personal stories focusing on housing issues faced by pet owners. My background in Property Management and Residential Real Estate gives me unique insight into what landlords want and need, and the goal of Unmentionable Pets is to create win-wins within the housing space.

The name comes from my own experiences. Often, renters do not want to “mention” that they have 3 cats, or a large dog, or even a reptile to potential landlords. This can later cause more issues for both parties. I thought the name would encompass many different situations in pet ownership (not just certain breeds or multiples), so we ran with it. We help pet owners, landlords, and the public in general with resources and options for facing a pet housing situation.

How did you come up with the idea for this service?

As a Realtor, over the last 10 years, the pattern would happen over and over, and over again. I would get a call, the person on the other end would be looking for a rental, and the first question they would ask me was: “Do you know if the landlord will take pet XYZ?” 

It would be a game of phone tag or outright no options to try and help place them in a rental. Many of them would just not say anything and call another agent pretending they did not have pets. I did not want that to be the reality. I created Unmentionable Pets to help share information with pet owners, and share resources with landlords about risk/reward options. We focus on how to get to a middle ground and support responsible pet ownership while paying attention to the landlord’s ROI (Return On Investment) and risk assessment from a business perspective.

My goal is also to help pet owners become homeowners and future landlords! With good fiscal choices, this helps to create more win-wins in the marketplace!

Have you ever had trouble finding pet-friendly housing? If so, how was the situation resolved?

Yes, I personally have had issues finding a home!

My husband is in the military, and most base housing has a list of banned dogs. However, my husband has wanted a pitbull-type dog since the day I met him. I always said no — not because of the dogs, but because we had to move a lot, and it was already hard to find something suitable for our family.

I didn’t want the added stress of having a pet that would be difficult to fit in that equation. So, our solution was that we knew we had to buy a home. From then on, we would be homeowners so that we did not have to let a landlord decide if the risk was worth it. That was 2009, and we have owned a home since then!

Do you have advice for property managers who are "on the fence" about no-pets (or breed restrictive) policies?

In my mind, it comes down to a few principles: communication, education, and willingness to serve responsible pet owners. 

The first is communication: Be willing to talk about why you would or would not like pet "XYZ" in your unit. Is there something you do not know? Is there more history or a compensation that can make it a win-win? Ask the questions and be willing to have a conversation.

No-pet policies, as well as weight and breed restrictions, are a major reason why pets are surrendered to shelters.

Real-life people and people on paper can be quite different: they might be as good as their resumé, or not. And many landlords are just following their routine – but they forget about the most important thing in the rental market: occupancy.

There is a huge cost to turn a unit year after year. If someone discloses a pet, put things in place to protect your investment. Good communication allows you to make these decisions, so let potential tenants be open and explanatory about their habits, plans, and lifestyle.

Education: Let’s be real! Pets represent a risk. There are good and bad pet parents out there, and their attitude can be decisive. But also, renting a home is always a risk! There are good and bad tenants, pet owners or not!

Know your options. Assess the risk/reward in each situation. What can be done to limit risk and protect your property? LOTS – over the last 3 years alone, more insurance carriers have put out low-cost options.

I have found, in my experience, that the owners who do not disclose their pets tend to cause the most financial damage to a property – physically and by not paying their rent on time. Good pet parents are really that: parents, taking care of their pets. They are grateful for a stable place to call home. Make sure this is the renter you are getting. Check references, check employment, do an internet search! Invest upfront to gather information so that you can make the decision that is most profitable in the long run.

You can protect your investment as well as offer a pet family a place to live. The more you encourage and fact-check potential renters, the more they are prepared and ready if they need to rent again.

Willingness: Like-energy people tend to find each other. I often see people who own pets themselves become great landlords to other pet owners. This keeps pets with their families and out of rescues/shelters. Is that not the goal, to keep pets with the families that love them?

Maybe this willingness to help others is how I was raised, but the other side of me says to rental communities and landlords: THIS CAN BE VERY PROFITABLE! More and more people are getting pets instead of growing their families. Therefore, they're typically taking proper care of their animals and have a stable income to make things right if something were to happen! See that as an opportunity to grow your real estate portfolio. 

Also, the innovators and successful people of most industries follow a plan, assess risk, but also break into new ground. You can stay status quo, but others will take advantage of this market and grow much faster.

Ask yourself:

-What are your goals?

-What is your timeline?

-What is the property rental history?

Everyone has a risk tolerance – find yours and see if there are win-wins to be had!  

What tips would you offer to people who are looking for pet-friendly rental housing?

The first one is to please be a good pet parent. Your actions will impact the landlord and indirectly hurt or help the next tenant! Everything is connected and you do make a difference. 

Do your own due diligence. Local laws, optional insurance – you must protect the landlord. Ask your vet, trainer, or pet-sitter for a formal recommendation. Be honest and upfront with as much detail as you can provide the landlord. The more information you give them, the better a decision they can make. 

Respect if they are not interested. It is their investment, and the fact is, right now, landlords have a lot of options. So, if it is a no, thank them and move on.   

Lastly, ask your network. Do you know anyone with pets like yours? Know any trusted agents to help? You might be surprised, if you just ask a few people, what options might be out there that you have not thought about. Or, of course, contact us and we'll be happy to help!

What is your service area, and how can people get more information? For those outside of your service area, do you have online resources?

Our team has the most knowledge of Hampton Roads Area of Virginia –think the towns of Norfolk, Virginia Beach, and Chesapeake. Also, San Diego County in California, and Lake County in Illinois.

Luckily, from my husband's time in the Navy, we know people who can help all over the country; thus why I can say coast-to-coast and really mean it! We are building our network slowly and would love referrals in any area for great agents, landlords, insurance people, etc., who share our passion for keeping pets and families together!

Our team has done a great job on our website, www.unmentionablepets.com, and you'll find us on other social media outlets as @unmentionablepets. So, make sure you take a look and give us a follow!

Is there anything else you'd like to say that our questions didn't cover?

The Unmentionable Pets community is focused on helping people, helping pets, and, in general, finding solutions. We are a place of education where questions are encouraged! There is always an answer – maybe not one you like, or maybe a tiny sacrifice, but there are always options! It's important to remember that we, the pet parents, are the ones who need to ask the questions!

I make it my personal mission to ensure our people are taken care of. Agents and Real Estate professionals can have a bad day, and that is something I want to know about so that I can have an opportunity to help or advocate for people with Unmentionable Pets. However, we are also a place of grace… let’s talk about it! Not every client goes with every agent, and vice versa! The goal is to find that balance on both sides and create the WIN-WINS!

The Imperfect, Mostly-Happy Life of Some Dogs

Many years ago, I landed a job as a bookkeeper at a small company that sold tractor parts. I was a new mother at the time, and I’d only been out of college for a few years. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do, so the employment agency placed me in this unlikely position. I knew nothing about tractors — much less about the parts that make them function. Frankly, I didn’t know much about bookkeeping either.

At first, I felt out of place in this male-dominated, machine-centered environment. The modular, no-frills office was set on land that was littered with metal parts and enclosed by a chain-link fence. It was nothing like the pretty, polished offices I had worked in before, and I didn’t think I would like it there. Then I met the company watchdog.

Sammy was a slightly overweight German shepherd mix who lived on the property. Although he had shelter and basic care, I viewed him as a dog without a home, and I felt sorry for him. I thought about my own dogs, lounging on the couch with the family every night. Didn’t every dog deserve that kind of life?

Over time, I came to realize that my preconceptions were flawed. The tractor parts shop turned out to be a nice place to work, with friendly coworkers and — although bookkeeping was not my calling — days spent in that office were not unpleasant. The same was true about Sammy. Yes, every dog DOES deserve a comfortable life with a loving family, but Sammy was far from homeless, lonely, or miserable. He had fresh food and water every day, and he was wildly popular with employees and customers. He seemed happy.

About 20 years later, I passed a man living on the sidewalk with his dog. The two of them were curled up together on a sleeping bag. There were empty food containers nearby, and a bowl of water. I left the area for a couple of hours, and when I returned, the man was being taken away by police and the dog was being put into an Animal Control vehicle. It was heartbreaking to see the man pounding desperately on the walls of the van, begging not to be separated from his dog. I don’t know what happened or why the police were called, but the scene made me think about how vulnerable those who don’t “fit the mold” can be.

These days, I travel often and try to keep an open mind about the different ways that people and pets live. I don’t automatically assume that it’s wrong for a pet to live primarily at a workplace, or that a person who is homeless does not deserve to have a pet. While I insist that every animal deserves care and comfort, I have realized that there are many paths to fulfilling those needs.

Free-Ranging Cat Management Plan for San Juan National Historic Site

The National Park Service is planning a strategy for management of free-ranging cats at the historic site at Old San Juan. The cats are part of a trap-neuter-vaccinate-return (TNVR) program, but the park’s proposed action involves removing the cats. (Exactly what that means is unclear.) Anyone interested in commenting is invited to do so by 11-22-2022.

The letter below is what I submitted in support of continuing the TNVR program. I am posting it here because the information might be useful to others who would like to weigh in.

To see the National Park Service project page and how to submit comments, please visit: https://parkplanning.nps.gov/projectHome.cfm?projectID=101358. Comments must be submitted by November 22, 2022.

What Role Do Pets Play in Urban Planning?

Guest Post by Laura von Puttkamer

Laura von Puttkamer is an urban development consultant and journalist on all things urban. She blogs at www.parcitypatory.org and is available as an author at www.textsandthecity.org.
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A perfect public space has been defined many times. It should be enjoyable, green, shady, accessible and equipped with infrastructure like waste bins, trees, paths, etc. Ideally, a well-planned city offers many public spaces where citizens can live, work and play – defined by famous French sociologist Henri Lefèbvre as the “Right to the City”.

But on top of that, it is worth considering other target groups in urban design. Urban planners tend to plan for people who are like themselves or their family, which means that children are left out of urban planning decisions altogether. Older people, disabled persons or pregnant women also find that they are neglected in many cases. And how about pet-owners? With about 67% of American citizens and more than 60% of Australian citizens owning a pet, it is worth looking at urban design from a new perspective. After all, liveable spaces should be attractive for pets and their owners. In the end, both humans and dogs benefit from:

-        Green space

-        Space to play

-        Space for interaction

-        Space to discover

-        Safe space (no cars!)

 
The “Eje Ambiental” in Bogotá is a perfect example of a well-designed public space.  Copyright: Laura von Puttkamer.

The “Eje Ambiental” in Bogotá is a perfect example of a well-designed public space.
Copyright: Laura von Puttkamer.

I think we can all agree that the space you are visualising after reading this list would be very attractive for humans as well. Looking at this diagram of what a perfect public space could look like, dogs and other pets mainly fall into the “sociability” category of a city. However, they should be considered when it comes to uses & activities, comfort & image and access & linkages as well.

Considering comfort and image, pet owners will also require pet-friendly restaurants and cafés as well as pet-friendly shops, waste stations and clear signage for where pets are allowed and whether they need to be on a leash or not. At the same time, a liveable city needs to have no-pet-zones where people who might be afraid of dogs can feel safe.

The Project for Public Spaces has developed this famous diagram showing the elements of a great public space. Copyright: Project for Public Spaces.

How is it possible to incorporate these ideas on a pet-friendly city in urban planning? There are several ways to go forward here:

  • Identify a pet owner with political or planning influence

  • Organise events with pets such as Puppy Parties (link) to make proposals for more pet-friendly cities

  • Clearly show and promote pet-friendly spaces

  • Get local news coverage about these spaces

A liveable city, in the end, should be attractive for everyone living in it, including pet-owners and their animals. Similar to the way that children can co-create a city in some projects, it is worth having a go at letting pets co-create it by exploring their needs and combining them with human needs.

A liveable city offers spaces for people, children and pets alike. Copyright: https://www.pxfuel.com/en/free-photo-xoinn.

A liveable city offers spaces for people, children and pets alike. Copyright: https://www.pxfuel.com/en/free-photo-xoinn.

Dog-Friendly Places Are People-Friendly Places

Have you ever noticed that the most vibrant and lively cities also tend to be the most dog-friendly? This is no coincidence. Many of the features that make communities great for people are the same things that make them dog-friendly as well: wide, well-lit sidewalks; walkable mixed-use areas; outdoor dining patios; nice parks and green spaces; etc.

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All around the world, these types of amenities bring people outside, creating energy and bustle that make a city feel alive. Whether we’re strolling on a city sidewalk in Boston or Barcelona, along the harbor in Sydney or San Diego, or through an urban park in Munich or Hanoi — cities that are designed to be pedestrian-friendly seem to have the most thriving communities. And for many a happy dog, these cities offer lots of walking and sniffing opportunities too!

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These are just a few photos we’ve taken in cities around the world. You’ll find more photos of pedestrian- and pet-friendly cities on our Pinterest page.

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Pet-Friendly Active Adult Communities

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These days, senior citizens have many living options to choose from. Those who are relatively healthy and independent, or who have caregivers to help, often choose “active adult living” communities. These communities, of course, vary widely but a few features are typical: single-story, accessible homes; small yards with low- or no-maintenance landscaping; proximity to stores, restaurants, and other conveniences; and amenities such as a community swimming pool, golf course, or park.

One advantage to active adult neighborhoods, unlike some senior living options, is that residents own their homes and can therefore keep their pets. Still, allowing pets is not necessarily the same as being “pet friendly.” Communities that have pet-friendly features can make pet keeping easier, safer, and more enjoyable for residents.

Here are some of the features we like to see in active senior (or really, any) communities:

  • Enclosed patios or courtyards, or fenced yards

  • Convenient, well-lit sidewalks or walking paths

  • Doggie waste bag dispensers and trash receptacles

  • Accessible grassy areas

  • Proximity to veterinarian and pet supply or grocery store

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Welcome to Pet-Friendly Planning!

Welcome to Pet-Friendly Planning – formerly Stay with Pets! Why the change? Our mission has evolved over the past 10 years, and we wanted our name to better reflect what we do.

Originally, our purpose was to help people find places where they could stay with their pets: hotels, apartments, shelters, etc. This continuous search for pet-friendly places has been eye-opening and sometimes disappointing. While many boutique inns and hotel/motel chains welcome dogs and cats, it remains difficult for people with pets (especially “bully-breed” dogs) to find housing. Seniors-only communities and emergency shelters present even bigger obstacles for people with companion animals. Sadly, these obstacles often cause people to abandon their pets, or to have their pets forcibly taken away from them. 

Our focus now is on helping to prevent these situations. In a world where hundreds of thousands of animals await rescue or adoption, we cannot afford to lose devoted caregivers. We are constantly on the lookout for news and ideas that can help people to live happily with their pets. If you would like to be part of our effort to make the world a more pet-friendly place, please follow our blog and social media pages. Thank you for visiting!

Copyright: Pet-Friendly Planning 2016

Copyright: Pet-Friendly Planning 2016